You�re known as an outspoken, straight to the point, no shit allowed kind of woman. Have you found that helps or hurts with your career?
That�s a difficult subject to touch on. Those that don�t know me would say that it hurts my career. Those that know me know that I�m really not this total bitch that everyone has this preconceived notion of. This business is known for its wild and crazy, sex-fiend girls. I�m not one of them. I enjoy sex, yes. But this is also my JOB� My income� My LIFE. I don�t have anything else, so I treat it as professionally as possible. I have a busy schedule, and a life outside of porn. I like to show up, do my job, then go home and get on with my life. The only time I�m ever a �bitch� on set is when people are lagging, not doing their job, disrespecting me or trying to take advantage of me. I don�t put up with it. And I get the reputation that I have because the majority of girls would just put up with it and just pray that the day went smoothly. I�m not a pushover. I�ll stand up for myself. In turn, I have no problem posting about the �situations� on my blog. If people get so hurt and/or offended about me being truthful about them on my blog, maybe they should learn to rethink their actions. I�m made out to be the bad guy just because, for once in this business, a pornstar is demanding professionalism. I don�t think the label is fair. For those who know me, I�m actually a big goofball on set. I laugh, I joke, I make funny faces at the camera and I have a good time while working. But all of that shuts down the second I sense unprofessionalism. If doing what I feel is right and standing up for myself gives me a �bad� reputation, then so be it. At least I can look myself in the mirror at the end of each day without shame.
How old were you the first time you had sex? 14, but I didn�t have sex again until I was 17, and I think I became �sexually active� around 18 or 19.
First girl on girl action?
I skipped high school one day and let a friend take me to get my nipples pierced. We ended up having a conversation with the girl that pierced me about how I had never kissed a girl before� and she planted one on me right there. I think I was 16. I think I was 19 with I first had sex with a girl. Some friends and I were drinking, one of the girls was really cute, and we fooled around in my bedroom for about an hour. I didn�t consider myself bisexual until I was about 21, when I started fantasizing about women.
You�ve mentioned being a �hopeless romantic� in personal relationships. Were you always like this or has porn brought out the softer side of you?
I�ve always been a hopeless romantic. I�m not big on astrology, but I�ve heard that it�s a trait in us Aquarians. I may have this hard-ass �business� exterior in porn, but �Jayden Jaymes� shuts down the second I walk off set and I�m back to being just me. I love having boyfriends and being in relationships, going on dates, making out, and just being surrounded by love. I�ve always been this way. However, porn has taught me to be more free spirited with my sexuality and with my sexual relationships, which I think can only benefit a relationship.
What can you do for a partner (either on set or not) that you�re most proud of? I take it you�re asking in sexual terms, so� I love to go down on my partner, male or female. I�ll do it all the time and never expect the favor returned. Personality or looks? Personality. I don�t date attractive guys. I like �weird�. If you can pull off the �afro-wearing giant� look and keep me smiling at nothing more than your goofiness, I�m in!
Do you ever get off to your own porn or is that just too weird?
I�ve never watched one of my scenes. I�ve watched the hilarious intros for a good laugh, but I can�t watch myself. Have you ever seen video footage of yourself drunk and think to yourself, �That�s not me!� That�s how I feel about me during my scenes. It�s not �me�� That�s �Jayden Jaymes�. I like to think that I�m the same person all around for the most part, but a mental switch is triggered when I�m performing and I don�t recognize the look in my eyes during a scene. -
You have everyone very curious about this new contract you�ve signed� care to give us the exclusive (we�re not adverse to offering bribes)? Oh man! Umm� Toys� That�s all I�m saying! (There should be a press release coming on it in the very near future!)
And my personal favorite question: If you had to give up one of the following for the rest of your life what would it be; sex, oral sex or masturbation? Oh my God!!! I don�t know!!! I�d have to go with masturbation. I love the intimacy behind sex and I could never give up that with a partner.
Congratulations on your group win for the 2010 AVN �Best Group Scene�! How important is this acknowledgement for you?
Thank you, but I don�t need a piece of glass to prove anything to myself or anyone. It�s something that I longed for in the past� But it�s all politics. I knew that scene would win. It was no secret: It was an orgy that included ALL of their contract girls in their biggest movie of the year! I was only one twelfth of the scene, so I�m not going nuts over it. It�ll look nice next to my trophy from Nightmoves for the FAN VOTED �Best New Starlet�. The fan stuff means more to me than anything.
Along with your regular pornstar duties you twitter, you blog, you have a You Tube diary and you keep up with website forums with your fans. Is there any point in the day you�re not working?
You forgot about my MySpace page!!! Hahahahahaha. I guess you could say that I work all the time. I didn�t make a name for myself by not learning to promote myself. It�s hard work, but I�d rather have that relationship with my fans than pay an assistant or a publicist to do it. Besides, I love doing it. But, I do take time for myself DAILY, whether it is dining with friends, spending a casual night on the town without makeup and a trucker hat, getting pampered with a massage or pedicure, or even just a walk in the park with my dog. It�s important to have your �me time�� One would go crazy with it!
Your greatest extravagance?
My lifestyle doesn�t include �extravagance�. I don�t spend money on materialistic things like purses and shoes. I drive a BMW 3-series, and that�s about as extravagant as I get. I�d rather spend money on a nice vacation with family and friends than on a purse that society is going to tell me is �out of style� two months later.
Your most marked characteristic?
My attitude. I�ve got spunk and a very sarcastic sense of humor that most people don�t understand and take the wrong way. It�s what I�ve used to help make a name for myself. The quality you most like in a woman and in a man? My answer doesn�t differ for the gender: I like independence and a fun personality.
I know you�ve been beaten over the head with the question but if I don�t ask I�ll be tarred and feathered; any upcoming anal scenes?
Hahahahahahaha! The NUMBER ONE question I get asked! I actually just lost my anal virginity about 2 months ago and I loved it! However, I haven�t done it since. But, I�ve put off the whole anal scene thing for long enough. I sort of pinky-promised Jules Jordan during the Adult Entertainment Expo this year that he�d get the first scene� and soon! All I�m looking to do is have one of my male talent friends break me in one more time before I do it on camera. So, maybe I can be so bold as to say that I will shoot my first anal scene within the next couple of months.
You have a ridiculously perfect body. Although there does seem to be confusion over whether your ass or tits are more perfect. What is your favorite body part?
I hate the word �perfect�! My body is far from. I�m not saying that I hate my body� I LOVE my curves! But I would never say �perfect�. As for my favorite part of my body� Umm� Can I say my eyes? Seriously! I love my eyes. Okay, okay� If I had to choose between my booty and my boobies, I�d say my boobs for the simple fact that I�d much rather have no ass than no tits.
What would we find in your bedroom?
An unmade bed with a 50 pound labrador/pitbull curled up in it; A closet organized by color scheme; Dresser drawers filled with old wife beaters, socks and t-shirts that I�ve stolen from old boyfriends; An unnecessary collection of an insane number of scarves; A MAC computer.
Since we�re not only about sex here (ehem), what was the last great book you read?
I love (auto)biographies of recovering addicts. Sex, drugs, alcohol, whatever. I love to read about their struggles and how they�ve worked at overcoming their demons. The last one that I thoroughly enjoyed was �Leaving Dirty Jersey� by James Salant. I�ve been going back and forth between Nikki Sixx�s �The Heroin Diaries� and Russell Brand�s �My Booky Wook� now, both of which are amazing� It�s just hard to find some peace and quiet lately to finish them!
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